Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Khaizuran Milestone

Sorry my dear for not updating your skills...walaupun sebelum ni mama tak sempat nak update dalam bentuk penulisan, mama tetap update dalam memori ingatan mama ye sayang..

20 months - February
Mastered Skills (most kids can do)
• Feeds doll• Takes off own clothes• Dumps an object in imitation, such as throwing garbage away

Emerging Skills (half of kids can do)
• Learns words at a rate of ten or more a day• Can walk up stairs (but probably not down)

Advanced Skills (a few kids can do)
• May start exploring genitals• Draws a straight line• Names several body parts

February was a hectic month..mama and abah was quite busy, abah was very busy in his work while mama emotionally tak stabil plus kerja pun banyak, nak share feelings dengan abah pun tak sempat...huhu...but still mama perasan je ur new skills...ur skills on learning new words semakin bertambah...khaizuran suka sangat outdoor activities..running, dah berani panjat gelongsor tapi masa nak slide ke bawah masih takut-takut...dah kenal dan tahu yang mana hidung, mata, mulut, kaki, tangan, pipi dan telinga....bila mama suruh buang sampah, buka pintu, naik car khaizuran dah faham.. Based on the reference...mastered skills khaizuran masih belum pandai buka baju sendiri..tapi lampin dan seluar memang dah reti..yang lain alhamdullilah memang dah mastered. For Emerging skills learning 10 words a day..emm mama tak dapat nak pastikan...about walk up stairs..surely khaizuran dah pandai...not just walk up stair walk down stairs pun dah pandai. On advance skills khaizuran still no sign of exploring genitals and don’t draw straight line, but definitely dah pandai menconteng...and YES able to name several parts of his body...




21 months - March

Mastered Skills (most kids can do)
• Can walk up stairs• Able to set simple goals (e.g., deciding to put a toy in a certain place)

Emerging Skills (half of kids can do)
• Throws a ball overhand• Kicks ball forward• Stacks six blocks

Advanced Skills (a few kids can do)
• Names simple picture in a book• Can walk down stairs

In March mama was very emotional...memang tak ada nak rasa happy langsung...even when good things happened still mama won’t feel happy...for the whole month the happy mood disappear...Arwah ummi izzati was very sick...sorry my dear if mama failed to noticed your new skills...mama was really down and sad....so sorry my dear...for this month mama will depend on the reference....For mastered skills 'check' for both of the skills. Yes you can walk up and down the stairs and khaizuran can set certain goals. The most obvious goal that mama can remember is khaizuran goals to do outdoor activities..bila mama balik keje..terus je ajak ke pintu nak jalan-jalan. Kalau mama buka tudung memang terus mengamuk suruh pakai balik. He know that when I wear my tudung it means that we will do outdoor activities. In this month Khaizuran also know how and where must he keep his toys...tapi bila dipujuk je baru nak menyimpan..huhu..For the emerging skills pasal throw and kicks ball memang sudah pandai dan mahir..tp stacks six blocks mama belum lagi belikan any blocks game..so tak dapat nak dipastikan. Sebenarnya mama tak pernah explore lagi on khaizuran ability to stacks block or stuff. Ok after this mama akan start to explore this skills ye..for the advanced skills alhamdullilah khaizuran has both of the skills. Pasal turun naik tangga tu memang dah expert sampai risau opah dibuatnya. Tiap kali balik rumah opah memang skills ni selalu je dipraktikan opah naik gerun...hehe..mama tak larang tapi memang sentiasa perhatikanlah ini pun bila mama sedar..kadang-kadang tu tiba-tiba je tengok khaizuran dah sampai ke tingkat atas...huhu...


22 months - April

Mastered Skills (most kids can do)
• Kicks ball forward • Follows two-step requests (e.g., "Get your doll and bring it here")

Emerging Skills (half of kids can do)
• Does simple puzzles• Draws a straight line• Names several body parts

Advanced Skills (a few kids can do)
• Puts on loose-fitting clothes• Might be ready for a big bed• Understands opposites (e.g., tall vs. short)

Dalam bulan April dari segi emosi khaizuran sudah pandai menunjukkan rasa cemburu dia dengan adik khairin. Setiap kali mama menyusukan khairin mula dia menunjukkan rasa protesnya...siap bagi arahan "mama letak adik"..huhu..sesi menyusu bersama khairin memang sentiasa diganggu oleh abang zuran...Bukan saja dengan adik dengan abah pun dia cemburu kalau mama urut abah mulalah protes kalau abah urut mama pun dia protes. Bila opah atau nenek nak ambil adik dan bermain bersama adik pun cemburu...huhu..bila balik ke kampung dah pandai berebut barang dgn kakak insyiroh pening kepala hembah dan nenek bila cucu dia main bersama...tp mama kagum dgn hembah..masa mama budak-budak dulu kalau berebut mainan dgn adik sure dah kena marah dah dgn hembah..ni mama tengok hembah relax je melayan telatah dan tantrum cucunya...mama terkesima sebentar..hehe...ok berdasarkan reference untuk mastered skills...kedua-duanya memang khaizuran dah mastered...untuk emerging skills mama rasa khaizuran masih lagi tak pandai nak lukis straight line...mama tak pernah ajar lagi skills ni pada khaizuran...nampaknya lepas ni kena mula ajar skills ni...dah 2 month in a row the skills have been mention by the expert. Skills yang lain tu memang khaizuran dah mastered..alhamdullilah...for advanced skills...puts on loose fitting clothes...ye sangat lah pandai...tapi untuk clothes khaizuran jarang tunjuk skills ni...kalau kasut tu memang dia sangatlah suka pakai kasut mama dan abah...bila nak kuar je kalau suruh pakai kasut..first selipar/kasut yang dia nak pakai adalah kasut/selipar mama dan abah...huhu..might be ready for big beds...mama tak berani lagi la nak bagi khaizuran tidur atas katil..khaizuran sangatlah suka bertukar posisi dan berguling masa tengah tidur..takut dia akan jatuh katil je ...maybe lepas dah 2 tahun bolehlah mula practice his skills sleeping on the bed..understand opposite...mama tak sure lah..takpe mama akan perhatikan n ajar ye skills untuk membezakan setiap perbezaan (the opposite things)



Khairin Milestone

It has been months since i write about my heroes milestones..so this is kharin's milestone from february untill April at age 4 month until 6 month

4 months - february

Mastered Skills (most kids can do)
• Smiles, laughs• Can bear weight on legs• Coos when you talk to him

Emerging Skills (half of kids can do)
• Can grasp a toy• Rolls over, from tummy to back

Advanced Skills (a few kids can do)
• Imitates sounds: "baba," "dada"• Cuts first tooth• May be ready for solid foods

Khairin dari segi personality nampak macam lagi peramah daripada abang zuran. Khairin suka sangat senyum dan ketawa bila diagah oleh orang. Sangat mudah tersenyum dan gelak. Kalau orang ajak bersembang memang ada respon siap keluar suara seolah-olah membalas setiap kata-kata orang...sangat cute..dengan kulit khairin yang putih gebu dan muka tembam memang jadi perhatian orang ramai...apapun kedua-dua anak mama memang hensem *wink* ok for mastered and emerging skills memang khairin PASS tetapi untuk advanced skills masih belum mastered semuanya...lagipun memang mama cadang nak bagi solid food masa 6 bulan nanti...first tooth memang dijangkakan masa umur setahun baru gigi akan keluar ni berdasarkan milestone abang zuran...hanya pada umur satu tahun baru ada gigi...



5 months - March

Mastered Skills (most kids can do)
• Distinguishes between bold colors• Plays with his hands and feet

Emerging Skills (half of kids can do)
• Recognizes own name• Turns toward new sounds• Rolls over in both directions
Advanced Skills (a few kids can do)
• Sits momentarily without support• Mouths objects• Separation anxiety may begin
Pada bulan March...khairin dah pandai tepuk tangan dan suka sangat buat exercise iaitu push up..kejap-kajap angkat badan..tangan khairin memang dah kuat...tapi belum bole merangkak just suka angkat badan...memang suka sangat bermain dengan tangan dan kaki...siap tenung macam geram je kat tangan sendiri...bila buka je stokin excited giler tengok kaki sendiri...berdasarkan reference memang untuk mastered dan emerging skills khairin dah PASS..untuk advanced skills pun khairin dah PASS.. memang mama perasan yang khairin punya development agak cepat sikit...maklumlah ada abang sebagai kawan dan pengajar jadi cepat je progress..paling terharu bila tengok abang dan adik bergelak ketawa bersama...


6 months - April

Mastered Skills (most kids can do)
• Turns toward sounds and voices• Imitates sounds• Rolls over in both directions

Emerging Skills (half of kids can do)
• Is ready for solid foods• Sits without support• Mouths objects• Passes objects from hand to hand

Advanced Skills (a few kids can do)
• Lunges forward or starts crawling• Jabbers or combines syllables• Drags objects toward himself

Pada awal bulan April iaitu sebelum 6 bulan khairin dah pandai merangkak..sempat jadi macam askar seminggu je..menyelongsor...then terus merangkak..dari segi progress ni kedua-dua anak mama menunjukkan trait yang sama...dua-dua tak suka menyelongsor (eh betul ke perkataan ni? maksud mama merangkak macam askar)...dalam tempoh seminggu lepas dah tahu tolak badan ke depan terus je merangkak...dalam usia 6 bulan khairin sangat peka pada bunyi...reaksi seperti biasalah sama ada excited gelak atau pun menangis..seperti biasa macam abang zuran jugak bila abah bersin sure menangis...hehe...kalau dengar sound yang ala-ala happy sure excited...yang paling mama suka tengok bila khairin gembira atau teruja..mesti kaki terlompat-lompat atau bergerak-gerak...bila main tepuk amai-amai pun excited bila mama ajak menari-menari suka sampai gelak kuat-kuat...cute je...dah mula pandai berebut toys or stuff dengan abang zuran...just like abang suka main dengan kereta dan bola .....Berdasarkan reference memang untuk mastered and emerging skills khairin dah PASS untuk Advanced skills untuk jabbers or combine syllabes jer khairn belum PASS. Patutlah sebelum ni mama pernah baca kalau ada siblings yang jarak usia dia dekat development anak akan lagi cepat...memang terbukti khairin punya milestone/progress agak cepat...kena ber Terima kasih dengan abang zuran ni yang tak pernah jemu mengajar (baca bermain dan mengusik) khairin...Khairin lagi mudah dapat bila abang yang ajar kan...



Reference:http://www.babycenter.com/0_milestone-chart-1-to-6-months_1496585.bc

Thursday, May 14, 2009

A Lesson to Learn

On Tuesday night as usual mama and abah went to the Kertih Pasar Malam to buy some groceries. Khaizuran was crying and wanted to fellow us so we just bought him along. To save time we decided to split abah go and buy the lauk chicken, Fish dll while mama go and buy the vegetables and fruits. After abah finished buying the lauk he came to mama and asked if mama want to buy any foods like keropok, kuih dll and mama say no need lah I am not hungry, I just want to eat some fruits for tonight...(diet lah katakan...hehe).

“Kita laparlah..kita pergi beli makanan ye”
"oklah...abang pergilah...kita pilih buah jap..nanti jumpa kat kereta"

Khaizuran was with me at that time...while I was selecting the fruit I noticed that khaizuran was beside me, I didn’t hold his hand at that time I just let him play with the rambutan while I was choosing the fruit that I want....

Tiba-tiba bila mama toleh kat sebelah..khaizuran was not beside me...mama terkejut sangat..terus call his name hoping that he will run to me...but there were no sign of him...mula gelabah...I just called his name and asked some people that was nearby whether they have saw a toddler wearing a blue pyjamas that was standing beside me...

"ada tadi kat sini...emm pelik camne boleh takde sebelah akak" a boy reply...

Then his kind father asked him to help me find my toddler at the other side the food area and the father help me find khaizuran at the fruits and vegetable area...after five minutes still we didn’t manage to find khaizuran..

"takpelah cik terima kasih ye....saya nak cari suami saya ni...mungkin anak ada dgn dia"

So mama ran to the food area hoping to meet abah...abah was not around...dalam hati i was praying so hard hoping that khaizuran is with abah..then before I went to the car again I search for khaizuran at the fruits area..still tak jumpa...so mama decided to go to the car...

Sampai je di kereta...there they were happily eating keropok lekor together...alhamdullilah...but at the same time I was kind of geram with abah...

"abang kita ingat khaizuran dah hilang, bila abang amik dia?
"kita round satu pasar macam apa je panggil nama dia..semua org pandang, siap ada yg tolong kita cari dia sekali"


"la tak kan tak perasan masa kita amik dia?lain kali janganlah terus panik. cari kita dulu kalau dia takde dgn kita baru cari dia sama-sama"

"kita panik, manalah kita terfikir nak cari abang..kita terus je cari anak dulu..."


Actually this is the second time khaizuran terlepas dari pandangan both of us...first time masa di OU...tapi sebab dia nangis kuat-kuat and terlepas pandang sekejap je..terus jumpa..and the people at OU sangatlah prihatin there was a group of people that was waiting with khaizuran while we both came...

Bila dah dua kali terjadi sangatlah takut kalau peristiwa macam ni terjadi sekali lagi...takut sangat-sangat...sebelum ni mmg dah terfikir nak beli baby harness..abah kurang bersetuju at first tapi sekarang abah akui yang we need one...

Although I know that I will get horrible comment when my child is wearing this, It is better that way than to feel sad later…huhu..I just want the best for my child



*Example of baby harness*

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Another Tag by Ani ~my dear sister~

This is a tag about me.

Your Nicknames:
Ulfa -most people call me "Ulfa"
Upa - those who are close to me..my other half and my family.
Mama Ulfa- my nephews and nieces call me "Mama Ulfa" for now i only have one niece - Insyiroh
Nurul - some of my teachers and those who called my name for the first time

You are kind of person who are:
Low-profiled
Sensitive...huhu
Loving
Caring
Emotional
Unpredictable
Tolerant and respect others
Forgiver
Stubborn and firm
Hate ignorance, isolation and war.
(ani amik yang ani tulis....kita kan one in a kind *wink*)

Who is your special ones? Describe why he/she seems so special to you.
My other half...Mr. Mohd Luqman Bin Mohamad Razali...insyaAllah my love dunia wa akhirat *wink* he is always beside me through hardship and happiness. Thank you My Dear
My heroes, our childs khaizuran and khairin and more to comes....hehe
My Parents and Parents-in-law including my family members.They know me better than anyone else. I am sure they will be with me when I am in need.There is no words to describe how important their existence is to my life.

Your Favourite songs:
Oh..my...oh...my...since becoming a mother I seldom hear to music only when I am in the car...
emmmm...apa pun
First will be lagi Nurul Iman...my other half dedicated this song to me masa mula-mula berchenta...hehe..he said this song remind him of me *wink*
Second is Lagu Brother..Tak ingat tajuk dia...but is start with Selama ini ku mencari-cari teman yang sejati buat menemani pejuang ini...bersyukur kini pada mu Ilahi teman yang dicari selama ini telah ku temui...dengannya di sisi pejuang ini senang diharungi bertambah murni kasih Ilahi...ok.ok need to stop...hehe...actually this was the song yang I dedicated to my other half masa mula-mula declare dulu *wink*...lagu-lagu nasyid je tau kitarang berdua ni...haha...lawak..
Setelah kahwin we both suka lagu marc anthony...My baby you are the reason I could fly And 'cause of you I don’t have to wonder why Baby you There’s no more just getting by You’re the reason I feel so alive.
and the latest is lagu I'm Your - Jason Mraz...hehe
But still lagu-lagu ketuhanan is the best..chewah ....*wink*

Your favourite foods are:
Fruits- Any fruit
Dairy foods: Yogurt, Milk and cheese
And those sweet things...ais krim..cakes...cookies..choclate..
Pasta- Pizza.. Spaghetti

Your favourite colours are:
All pastel colours such as pink, peach, cream and etc. and white

Three things you must have inside your handbag
Keys
Purse
Mobile phone

When was the last time you cried? Why was it happened?
A few days ago because my dear sister- Arwah Nurul Izzati passed away :(. Miss her so much

Tag by - Sister Ani

Oh my...oh my..lately my mood is not that ok...writing is one of my therapy..by saying that it is better if I start writing again...So let start with doing the tags for Ani
Happiness resides not in possessions and not in gold,
the feeling of happiness dwells in the soul.- Aristotle
Here are 10 things that make me happy..


1. Love
Having Love is one of the most important elements in mama life. Being love and to love is a gift a valuable Gift from Allah. Having love you will feel your life is complete. As a Muslim the utmost love is Allah's love only by Allah’s love you will feel your life is content. After loving Allah My love goes to Habibullah Kekasih Allah iaitu Rasullullah s.a.w. He is the messenger that help guide our life by him the civilisation was built. Alhamdullilah. Then my love goes to the mankind, my other half aka my husband he has shower me with love...alhamdullilah I feel so happy...my mother and father their unconditional love..my siblings, my in-laws, and not to forget my heroes khaizuran and khairin that I really adores and love...my dear friends and insyaAllah my brother and sister of Islam...Alhamdullilah having the feeling of love make me feel so happy (^_^)

2. Health
Without health it is hard for you to function well as a person you suppose to be...if I am not healthy how can I be a good wife, mother, daughter and friend. It will limit my ability to perform ibadah to Allah...Oh Allah thank you for this health...Ya Allah jangan biarkan hambamu ini lalai dengan nikmat kesihatan ini ya Allah...

3. Wealth
Yes called me materialistic if you want...I believed one of the important element in life is wealth...Wealth can make me happy....but still how do I defined wealth differ from other people...some people say that having millions of money, big house, luxury car put you in the category as wealthy...as for me having the stuff that is the needs in life is already wealthy...when you feel you are content than you are wealthy...alhamdullilah for now I already fell bless with the wealth that Allah have already gave to me and my family...Alhamdullilah

4. Family
Yes By having a family I feel very happy. I could not imagine my life without my family although I have a lot of friends still it could not replaced the happy feeling when I am with my family. I am so thankful to Allah for the fate to meet my jodoh early, to able to have kids and to be bless with a big family. I have ten siblings and my other half have 8 siblings...Alhamdullilah

5. Knowledge
Yes when I read and I gain new knowledge I fell Happy. I fell in control I know why things happen what I suppose to do. By having Knowledge I could see the beauty of Islam. With Knowledge I got to know and love my creator Allah better. Alhamdullilah

Oh my. I thought this was easy...10 things...I only have five...apa lagi ye...

6. ha..Food *wink*
I love food...food make me happy especially those sweet taste...oh that is one of the reason why it is so hard for me to diet...hehe...bila mama nak dapat my ideal weight again (^_^)

7. Those beautiful smiles from my love ones...
When I am sad and down when I see my two heroes smile I feel so happy and overwhelmed...exaggerate ke ni...seriously I do...when they laugh and smile owh...the feeling....it make me feel that I am a good mother and they love me so much....hehe... *wink* not to forget the smiles from my other half...when he smile at me...owh..rasa macam jatuh chenta sekali lagi...hehe..The smiles from my family my parents it make me feel that I am a good daughter and a good daughter in law...my siblings I feel that I am a good sister (^_^)

8. A good leader
Having a good leader a leader that practice Islam and also have knowledge in leading the country to a better present and future can make me feel so happy...(mmg tgh bengang dgn situasi politik negara...huhu)...Ya Allah.....peliharalah rakyat Malaysia daripada kerakusan pemimpin yang tamak dan gilakan kuasa...dan Ya Allah peliharalah seluruh ummat Islam daripada pemimpin-pemimpin yang tidak mempunyai hati yang mencintaimu dan Islam...

9. Achieving my dreams and target..
Yes I have dreams...when it comes true I will feel so happy....apapun I always keep in mind that the fate that Allah creates is always PERFECT...

10. Ok lagi satu apa ye....emmm...I feel happy to be born as a Muslim...enough said...alhamdullilah

Now I tag all my friends that is reading this entry...especially those in my clicks list...all the best....

p/s fell better already *wink*

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Smile - A gift

Just came back from the morning talk. The morning talk was a talk about life after marriage but it didn’t go very deep about marriage because the time duration was only one hour and half. Alhamdullilah it was a very joyful session. The moderator knows how to make jokes so most of us didn’t feel bored.

The moderator asked what is the first accessories that u must have/wear when u wake up. Automatically in my mind I knew the answer is a smiled. Because I noticed every time when I wake up the first thing that my other half want to see is my smile. If I don't smile he will asked

"pa kenapa is there something wrong?

So the best gift that we wife could give to our husband is a smile. So my dear friends although sometimes we feel down or sad just put a smiled on our face. A smile is an every day gift that u can give to the people that u love. If you want your partner to start his day in a good mood, you just need to smile.