Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Reading Books

Since Khaizuran and Khairin was a baby I have already Introduced them with books. Every time when we go shopping one item that is a must is buying books, I love reading books and I want them to love reading too. But now when khaizuran and khairin are toddler sometimes I decline to read to them..huhu..boleh pulak macam tu…They are smart kids and they always use reading as a way to get my attention..sampai jadi letih…the whole day I have to read books, they will only stop asking me to read books if I asked them to do other activities tapi dengan syarat I joined them doing the activity. Reading out loud is tiring I have to do face expression and always change the tone of my voice.

“tak payahlah read book, just go and play with the cars or ball, mama penatlah”,

I feel very guilty every time when I asked them to play instead of reading. But abah always remind me not to force myself too much and be realistic there are times when we can’t be the perfect parents that doesn’t mean that we don’t love them or not trying our best to give the best.

For now I am very glad that my boys love reading the first activity they asked to do once they had bath in the morning is reading. I feel happy too because Bibik is very cooperative with this activity I noticed that she also do read books to my boys .

Abah tak laku in the reading activities, sebab abah baca buku tanpa perasaan, when I asked him to do different tone he will laugh and say

“tak pandai, rasa macam poyolah baca macam tu,”

“la dengan anak and wife pun you nak control macho ke,”

When playing with cars and ball mama pulak tak laku, they want abah to play with them, lega mama boleh rehat..hehe..

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Khaizuran say….

At the age of two it is expected that your child follow the words and behavior of his parents..Khaizuran really do copy us…I noticed for words he love to follow me but behavior he really do follow his dad, it seem like he really idol his dad…

Khaizuran: kejap ye…

Usually when khaizuran asked me to get something before I leave him I will say: kejap ye.. I noticed if I asked him to get something he will say those word plus the hand signal..sebijik cam mama buat…even when he is playing with other kids if he want to go and fetch something before he leave he will say kejap ye..kejap ye…

Mama and abah tergelak je tengok…so cute…

Khaizuran: Bismillah rimah ir him…al amu…lah amin…Allahu akhbar

He will say this every time when he is standing on the sejadah…usually abah read a loud the al fatihah when he is the imam and if abah goes to the mosque or surau he always bring khaizuran..so every time when he pray he will read out loud Al-fatihah and takbir..even when abah is the Imam still he will read al-fatihah out loud

Khaizuran: keluar..

So ashame about this..huhu..at night when khaizuran doesn’t want to go to sleep I will scold him and say: Keluar..keluar sekarang…so every time when he is angry or want to scold other he will say keluar..keluar…

Khaizuran: ooo kat situ…

If I search for something when I found it I will say..ooo kat situ… I noticed every time when khaizuran find things that he is searching for he will say the same thing..ooo kat situ…

Khaizuran: ooo yeaa speed speed

One of khaizuran favourite movie is CARS…one of Lighning Mc Queen Dialogue is ooo yeaa speed speed, when he see a sport car he will…oo yea speed speed…very funny especially when he say it with his face expression..

Khaizuran: penatla..nantila

Sometimes when khaizuran asked me to do certain thing if I am tired I will say penatlah…nantilah…so everytime when I asked him to do something and he doesn’t want to do it he will say the same thing…I need to change! So that this behavior will stop…

Khaizuran: abang..abannggg

Yang ni tak boleh terima…he call his dad abang….he follow me!. When I asked abah mana? He know which one is abah, and he refer his dad as abah but when he want to call his abah from a distance he will call abang..abang…

Funny but sometimes embarrassing

Khaizuran: ayoo ayoo

When he or khairin do something that is wrong he will say…ayooo..ayyoo abah always say this if he did something that gonna make mama mad…

While playing squash or hitting the ball - Khaizuran: macam ni..ok macam ni..macam ni

When abah teaches khaizuran how to hit the ball..abah will say ok macam ni..macam ni every time when abah hit the ball…so when khaizuran able to hit the ball he will say macam ni also…hehe…kelakar..there was one time when we saw him practicing moving and running in the squash court like abah..sebijik gaya abah berlari..very funny

All About Khairin

Need to note down this before I forget

Able to turn his body at the age of 4 month.

Able to move his body forward and backward – 5 month

First solid food – 6 month

Able to crawl at the age of six month

Able to sit, after crawling he just sit – six month

Started to stand with support – 8 month

Start to climb – 8 month

Start to stand and walk with support 9 month

Walked steady and running 14 month

Start to stand without support 9 ½ month

First tooth actually two tooth appear at the same time- 10 month

Able to walk forward 10 month

Start saying his first word 12 month – nak..mama...

Able to run 13 month

The third and forth tooth -12 month

Play with the ball, kick and throw the ball 12 month

Follow when people pray and wuduk – 14 month know how to sujud, rukuk and berdoa..

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Pendidikan

Pendidikan anak-anak merupakan sesuatu yang sangat penting Alhamdullilah mama ditemukan dengan seorang Tokoh Psychology Islam di alam maya ini Prof. Dr. Muhammad Al'Mahdi. Meskipun beliau sudah tiada lagi tetapi ilmu yang ditinggalkan amat bermanfaat. Perkenalan pertama bermula setelah membaca artikel dalam blog saifulislam mama amat tertarik dengan modul yang diperkenalkan iaitu Modul Khalifah. Memang mama suka mencari bacaan tentang pendidikan dan psychology dalam Islam Alhamdullilah dipertemukan dengan ilmu Muhammad Al'Mahdi.

Shaping Excellent Character: A Manual For Parents, Women Club UKM, on behalf Muhammad al’ Mahdi

Download Free from the Internet:http://www.islamic-world.net/mkc/introduction.htm

Selain itu sebelum ini sudah empat buku yang dibaca... Alhamdullilah memang bermanfaat

Anakku Hebat Anakku Soleh, Zahazan Mohamed

Raising Happy Kids, Rozieta Shaari

Pendidikan Anak dalam Islam I dan II, Dr. Abdullah Nashih Ulwan

Sekolah Modul Khalifah ini begitu menerapkan konsep Islam dalam pembelajaran harapnya dapatlah anak-anak berkesempatan dalam menerima pendidikan sebegini. Andai kata tidak berpeluang mama sedang berusaha menyiapkan diri dalam memahami dan mendalami konsep pendidikan yang diperkenalkan. Memang tanggungjawab mendidik adalah dibahu mama dan abah…kalau ada ‘extra hand’ Alhamdullilah satu bonus buat mama. Apabila berbicara soal anak-anak memang isu pendidikan merupakan elemen penting yang menjadi keutamaan abah dan mama, mama sering berbincang aliran sekolah mana yang hendak dipilih untuk membesarkan anak-anak…

“abang sekolah model khalifah tu bagus, kalau kita dah balik Kl nanti bolehlah kita hantar anak-anak ke situ”

“emm mahal tak yuran dia”

“mahal abang..tapi ufa rasa berbaloi…dalam zaman sekarang ni hanya Ilmu agama sebagai penyelamat kepada banyak masalah”,

“Tetapi bukanlah ufa nak lepas tangan, ufa bertanggungjawab sepenuhnya kepada pendidikan anak-anak cuma kalau dapat sekolahkan mereka dalam environment Islamic dapatlah membantu ufa”

“Berapa yuran dia?”

“mahal untuk mendaftar je 4k dan setiap bulan 600, tapi mungkin kita boleh guna duit simpanan anak-anak yang kita potong tiap bulan..ufa rancang nak potong 100 setiap seorang untuk tiap bulan..insyaAllah bila mereka dah bersekolah nanti mencukupilah utk yuran…untuk yuran university kita guna insuran..lagipun banyakkan duit abah (atok) bagi kat budak-budak ni kita simpan dan guna untuk pendidikan mereka”,

“ufa bukanlah nak suruh mereka sekolah swasta, tapi entahlah hati berat nak hantar mereka ke sekolah aliran agama”

“tapi mahal betul…takut nanti kita tak banyak saving lah”

“emm abang..anak-anak kan saving kita..kalau kita duit banyak dlm bank pun bila kita mati…bukannya duit tu boleh tolong…ada tiga je yang boleh tolong kita..amal jariah, ilmu yang bermanfaat yang diamalkan dan doa anak-anak soleh..kita anggaplah ni sebagai pelaburan untuk kita dan anak-anak..berjaya di dunia dan akhirat..lagipun kan abang pernah cakap cukup kita ada rumah sendiri, sebidang tanah, kenderaan dan duit yang mencukupi untuk menampung makan.minum dan kesihatan kita”

“takpe abang..masa panjang lagi..kita rancang dan kita berusaha..insyaAllah kalau itu yang terbaik Allah akan bagi peluang tu kepada kita”

Sumber Rujukan:

Prof Muhammad Al’Mahdi is one of the world’ foremost child psychologists and educators. He spent almost 14 years, as a full time university student in the US including 3 PhD programs in child, clinical and experimental psychology. Died in Kuala Lumpur on 29 April 2006 AD.THE FOUNDER OF KHALIFAH INSTITUTE: http://www.islamic-world.net/psychology/index.php

The late Prof. Dr. Muhammad al’Mahdi spent almost 14 years as a full time university student in the USA, had 3 Ph.D. programs, in child, clinical, & experimental psychology. He was an Assistant Professor of Child/Clinical psychology in USA. He worked for the US government Office of Child Development as a research director in children’s values education, and was a Chief Psychologist for Head Start.

Prof. devoted his last days to training others in the knowledge & techniques he acquired during his lifetime. He was for over half of his life an atheist, convinced by the materialist science he knew so well that God did not exist. After he came to understand the non-materialist science of Einstein, he realized that if he wanted to be honest as a scientist he had to accept that scientific data now very powerfully proclaimed that God did exist. It was his study of theoretical physics which changed him from a non-believer into a believer in God & it was the perfection of the revealed truth of Islam in the Qur’an & the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad saw that resulted in him becoming a Muslim almost twenty five years ago. Before he became a Muslim he gave years of serious study to all of the world’s major religions and found that no other religion but Islam offered him the opportunity to remain both an objective scientist, and a true believer in God. Allah has indeed Blessed him greatly by His guidance. http://www.khalifahtraining.com/


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