Khaizuran Milestone

Sorry my dear for not updating your skills...walaupun sebelum ni mama tak sempat nak update dalam bentuk penulisan, mama tetap update dalam memori ingatan mama ye sayang..

20 months - February

Mastered Skills (most kids can do)
• Feeds doll• Takes off own clothes• Dumps an object in imitation, such as throwing garbage away

Emerging Skills (half of kids can do)
• Learns words at a rate of ten or more a day• Can walk up stairs (but probably not down)

Advanced Skills (a few kids can do)
• May start exploring genitals• Draws a straight line• Names several body parts

February was a hectic month..mama and abah was quite busy, abah was very busy in his work while mama emotionally tak stabil plus kerja pun banyak, nak share feelings dengan abah pun tak sempat...huhu...but still mama perasan je ur new skills...ur skills on learning new words semakin bertambah...khaizuran suka sangat outdoor activities..running, dah berani panjat gelongsor tapi masa nak slide ke bawah masih takut-takut...dah kenal dan tahu yang mana hidung, mata, mulut, kaki, tangan, pipi dan telinga....bila mama suruh buang sampah, buka pintu, naik car khaizuran dah faham.. Based on the reference...mastered skills khaizuran masih belum pandai buka baju sendiri..tapi lampin dan seluar memang dah reti..yang lain alhamdullilah memang dah mastered. For Emerging skills learning 10 words a day..emm mama tak dapat nak pastikan...about walk up stairs..surely khaizuran dah pandai...not just walk up stair walk down stairs pun dah pandai. On advance skills khaizuran still no sign of exploring genitals and don’t draw straight line, but definitely dah pandai menconteng...and YES able to name several parts of his body...

21 months - March

Mastered Skills (most kids can do)
• Can walk up stairs• Able to set simple goals (e.g., deciding to put a toy in a certain place)

Emerging Skills (half of kids can do)
• Throws a ball overhand• Kicks ball forward• Stacks six blocks

Advanced Skills (a few kids can do)
• Names simple picture in a book• Can walk down stairs

In March mama was very emotional...memang tak ada nak rasa happy langsung...even when good things happened still mama won’t feel happy...for the whole month the happy mood disappear...Arwah ummi izzati was very sick...sorry my dear if mama failed to noticed your new skills...mama was really down and sad....so sorry my dear...for this month mama will depend on the reference....For mastered skills 'check' for both of the skills. Yes you can walk up and down the stairs and khaizuran can set certain goals. The most obvious goal that mama can remember is khaizuran goals to do outdoor activities..bila mama balik keje..terus je ajak ke pintu nak jalan-jalan. Kalau mama buka tudung memang terus mengamuk suruh pakai balik. He know that when I wear my tudung it means that we will do outdoor activities. In this month Khaizuran also know how and where must he keep his toys...tapi bila dipujuk je baru nak menyimpan..huhu..For the emerging skills pasal throw and kicks ball memang sudah pandai dan mahir..tp stacks six blocks mama belum lagi belikan any blocks game..so tak dapat nak dipastikan. Sebenarnya mama tak pernah explore lagi on khaizuran ability to stacks block or stuff. Ok after this mama akan start to explore this skills ye..for the advanced skills alhamdullilah khaizuran has both of the skills. Pasal turun naik tangga tu memang dah expert sampai risau opah dibuatnya. Tiap kali balik rumah opah memang skills ni selalu je dipraktikan opah naik gerun...hehe..mama tak larang tapi memang sentiasa perhatikanlah ini pun bila mama sedar..kadang-kadang tu tiba-tiba je tengok khaizuran dah sampai ke tingkat atas...huhu...

22 months - April

Mastered Skills (most kids can do)
• Kicks ball forward • Follows two-step requests (e.g., "Get your doll and bring it here")

Emerging Skills (half of kids can do)
• Does simple puzzles• Draws a straight line• Names several body parts

Advanced Skills (a few kids can do)
• Puts on loose-fitting clothes• Might be ready for a big bed• Understands opposites (e.g., tall vs. short)

Dalam bulan April dari segi emosi khaizuran sudah pandai menunjukkan rasa cemburu dia dengan adik khairin. Setiap kali mama menyusukan khairin mula dia menunjukkan rasa protesnya...siap bagi arahan "mama letak adik"..huhu..sesi menyusu bersama khairin memang sentiasa diganggu oleh abang zuran...Bukan saja dengan adik dengan abah pun dia cemburu kalau mama urut abah mulalah protes kalau abah urut mama pun dia protes. Bila opah atau nenek nak ambil adik dan bermain bersama adik pun cemburu...huhu..bila balik ke kampung dah pandai berebut barang dgn kakak insyiroh pening kepala hembah dan nenek bila cucu dia main bersama...tp mama kagum dgn hembah..masa mama budak-budak dulu kalau berebut mainan dgn adik sure dah kena marah dah dgn hembah..ni mama tengok hembah relax je melayan telatah dan tantrum cucunya...mama terkesima sebentar..hehe...ok berdasarkan reference untuk mastered skills...kedua-duanya memang khaizuran dah mastered...untuk emerging skills mama rasa khaizuran masih lagi tak pandai nak lukis straight line...mama tak pernah ajar lagi skills ni pada khaizuran...nampaknya lepas ni kena mula ajar skills ni...dah 2 month in a row the skills have been mention by the expert. Skills yang lain tu memang khaizuran dah mastered..alhamdullilah...for advanced skills...puts on loose fitting clothes...ye sangat lah pandai...tapi untuk clothes khaizuran jarang tunjuk skills ni...kalau kasut tu memang dia sangatlah suka pakai kasut mama dan abah...bila nak kuar je kalau suruh pakai kasut..first selipar/kasut yang dia nak pakai adalah kasut/selipar mama dan abah...huhu..might be ready for big beds...mama tak berani lagi la nak bagi khaizuran tidur atas katil..khaizuran sangatlah suka bertukar posisi dan berguling masa tengah tidur..takut dia akan jatuh katil je ...maybe lepas dah 2 tahun bolehlah mula practice his skills sleeping on the bed..understand opposite...mama tak sure lah..takpe mama akan perhatikan n ajar ye skills untuk membezakan setiap perbezaan (the opposite things)

Reference: http://www.babycenter.com/0_milestone-chart-19-to-24-months_1496591.bc